Building Self-Esteem After Sexual Violence

Discover practical approaches to rebuilding confidence and self-worth. Professional guidance to help you develop a stronger sense of self on your recovery journey.

Understanding Self-Esteem and how sexual violence can impact it

Self-esteem is how we value and perceive ourselves. After sexual abuse, many survivors experience challenges with self-worth and confidence. Building healthy self-esteem involves developing a positive yet realistic view of yourself, recognising your inherent worth beyond past experiences.

Common Challenges with Self-Esteem

Many survivors experience difficulties with self-worth. Understanding these challenges helps us address them:

Struggling to recognise personal worth and value

Difficulty accepting praise or positive feedback

Experiencing persistent self-doubt and criticism

Challenges in setting healthy boundaries

Finding it hard to trust personal judgement

Difficulty identifying personal strengths

The Impact of Building Self Esteem
55%
Of young people report feeling confident in 2023, showing a significant decline from 68% in 2017
79%
Of survivors report improved wellbeing after engaging in self-esteem building programmes
40%
Of young people say social media impacts their self-image, highlighting the importance of internal validation

Nurturing Your Self Esteem

Recognising Your Strengths

Learning to identify and acknowledge your personal strengths and achievements, no matter how small they might seem.

Setting Healthy Boundaries

Developing the confidence to establish and maintain personal boundaries that protect your wellbeing.

Challenging Negative Thoughts

Learning to recognise and question negative self-beliefs while developing more balanced self-perceptions.

Survivor Resources & Research

Learning from other survivors journeys can be a powerful tool, and make you feel much less alone. Access specialist articles, survivor stories, and evidence-based research about childhood sexual violence recovery and support.

Survivor Support
Understanding the impacts of Sexual Violence & Recovery

Articles and guides covering trauma responses, recovery stages, and practical support strategies for survivors of childhood sexual violence.

Survivor Poetry Collection

A curated collection of poems written by survivors of sexual abuse, sharing personal experiences of trauma, healing, and recovery. *Please note that whilst this content is moderated you may find some of it triggering so please take care*

Research & Insights

Key findings from our research , revealing crucial insights into sexual violence and abuse, how survivors access support services, costs to the NHS and survivor experiences, and more

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