Specialist Support for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

Professional, confidential support designed specifically for men who have experienced sexual violence. You're not alone, and recovery is possible.

Understanding Male Sexual Abuse

Sexual abuse affects men of all backgrounds and ages. While many experiences are shared among all survivors, men often face unique challenges in seeking and accessing support. Our specialist service recognises these challenges and provides trauma-informed support that understands the specific needs of male survivors.

Common Challenges for Male Survivors

Many men face specific barriers when seeking support. Understanding these challenges helps address them:

Feelings of shame and isolation

Concerns about masculinity and identity

Questions about physical responses during abuse

Difficulty discussing experiences

Fear of judgment or disbelief

Uncertainty about sexuality after abuse

Breaking the Silence
84,000
Men and boys experience sexual abuse each year in the UK
26 Years
Average time before male survivors disclose their experiences
4%
Of male survivors tell someone about their abuse at any point in their life

Strengthening Your Sense of Self

Specialist Support

Access to male-specific counselling and support services delivered by professionals who understand your experiences.

Confidential Space

A safe, non-judgmental environment where you can explore your experiences at your own pace.

Peer Support

Connect with other male survivors through supervised support groups, reducing isolation.

Self help resources for men:

If you are working with us or considering getting in touch we’ve put some additional self help resources together that may be useful in the first instance. We also have a range of resources available at our centre which your worker will discuss with you.

Please take care and ensure you have adequate support in place when using these resources as certain things may trigger you.

SiT Self Help Guide

A self-help guide for males who have been sexually abused:

LivingWell Self Help Guide

You might be experiencing overwhelming emotions, confusion, or numbness. These are normal reactions to trauma, and there are ways to manage these feelings. Our trained team can help you understand and cope with these responses

BlueKnot

You might be experiencing overwhelming emotions, confusion, or numbness. These are normal reactions to trauma, and there are ways to manage these feelings. Our trained team can help you understand and cope with these responses

RAINN Self Care Tips

You might be experiencing overwhelming emotions, confusion, or numbness. These are normal reactions to trauma, and there are ways to manage these feelings. Our trained team can help you understand and cope with these responses

SARAS Self Help Guide

You might be experiencing overwhelming emotions, confusion, or numbness. These are normal reactions to trauma, and there are ways to manage these feelings. Our trained team can help you understand and cope with these responses

SurvivorsUK

You might be experiencing overwhelming emotions, confusion, or numbness. These are normal reactions to trauma, and there are ways to manage these feelings. Our trained team can help you understand and cope with these responses

Survivor Resources & Research

Learning from other survivors journeys can be a powerful tool, and make you feel much less alone. Access specialist articles, survivor stories, and evidence-based research about childhood sexual violence recovery and support.

Survivor Support
Understanding the impacts of Sexual Violence & Recovery

Articles and guides covering trauma responses, recovery stages, and practical support strategies for survivors of childhood sexual violence.

Survivor Poetry Collection

A curated collection of poems written by survivors of sexual abuse, sharing personal experiences of trauma, healing, and recovery. *Please note that whilst this content is moderated you may find some of it triggering so please take care*

Research & Insights

Key findings from our research , revealing crucial insights into sexual violence and abuse, how survivors access support services, costs to the NHS and survivor experiences, and more

Make a Difference Today

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